Black Mirror Episode

Have you seen that Black Mirror episode, “Nosedive" the one where everyone was obsessed with their five-star rating? It felt like each character was living in a pastel-colored purgatory where every smile was fake and every latte was just a photo op. When I look at the current state of social media in 2026, I have to ask: Who are these people even influencing?

In the episode, the main character loses everything trying to climb a social ladder made of glass. I decided to break the damn glass instead! My business on my terms. I didn’t take financial risks opening a business to help someone curate performative content with my salon as the backdrop.I opened VANITY to be a sanctuary for Black women. While the world chases veneers, I’m chasing impact.

One of the main reasons you won’t see influencers setting up tripods and ring lights in my salon is because, quite frankly, that process disturbs the salon energy. Do I record content once in a blue to keep our social media pages alive? Sure! But it’s few and far in between. VANITY is built on a specific vision-privacy, safety, and realness that evaporates the moment a camera is shoved in your face. Compromising comfort for a handful of digital likes isn’t worth it. As a business owner, I believe in controlling the narrative. If the energy isn't authentic, it doesn't belong here.

In the beginning, I was so resistant to the hoopla of social media that I didn't even want a phone that could download the apps. I knew exactly what that exposure meant. Opening the doors to creepy people with zero boundaries and the jealous ones who thrive on comparison. As a 47 year old Gen Xer who had an analog childhood but a digital adulthood, I’ve seen the chaos that access to too much information inflicts.

My original vision was simple: a quiet, discreet space that existed strictly off the grid. However, the universe had other plans. In 2023, our profile exploded, and we were ranked as one of the top ten natural hair salons in New York City.

That accolade brought a wave of unwanted noise. We now navigate everything from spiteful reviews when our schedule is full to having attorneys issue cease-and-desist letters to unhinged "potential" customers. Then there are the constant requests from people wanting to record content or film their entire appointment.

I shut that down immediately. I don’t care who the client is; my answer is always the same: that’s not happening. My clients come here because they know they are safe. They may pay for the hair, but they stay for the discretion.

I’m protective of my people, too. Just this April, I was styling a young woman who is st the genesis stage of her professional career. As we were taking photos of the hair, I told her to adjust her body so her face wasn't in the frame. She shrugged and said, "Oh, I don’t care, it’s alright if you show my face."

I looked at her and said, "Listen, you’re new in your role. You need to minimize your exposure until you get exactly where you want to be. Dial it down until you are 100% confident in your footing." She stopped and looked at me. "Natasha, I didn't even think about that."

It’s not about placing a muzzle on anyone; it’s about consciousness. If you’re an entrepreneur or a creative and you have free rein to highlight your life without fear of retribution, that’s a beautiful thing. Do your thing on your own time. But in this salon? We are protecting the peace. We are holding the space. You can create the best hair in New York, but you can’t buy my atmosphere.

BLOG | MAY 2026

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